Are you social? Most men aren't aware of how being social can help to improve their lives generally. Listen to me because I was the unsocial guy for most of my life. I was always the socially inept guy in class. Needless to say, I was considered the loser and the weird guy.
Why didn't people love me? Because I didn't love myself. People treated me as I treated my self. I was so shy that I used to be proud of not wanting to meet new people and do new things generally. I even used to brag about it. I hated change that caused any kind of discomfort. As you have probably guessed, people that are like this usually do not live happy lives. They have low confidence and self esteem. They have this inferiority complex. They can't succeed in life because of this complex. They never learn to love themselves.
Yes, I was one of those people. Let's get to the brighter side now. If you become more social, you will take care of so many other issues. You will become more confident first. You become more confident because you will take more risks. As you become more confident, you realize that you're not such a poor person. You start loving yourself. Some people even take this to the extreme (which is not recommended).
All of this is great. With time, you start losing that awful inferiority complex. You cease worrying so much in life. Your self esteem increases. As a result, you don't think that negatively anymore and you start having a more positive outlook.
If you are very shy now, the idea of becoming very social may be frightening to you. Don't worry. You don't need to start being the life of the party immediately. Start slowly. Talk to at least one stranger a day about anything. Meet more people anywhere you can. Don't ever decline someone's invitation to an event where you could meet more people.
Why didn't people love me? Because I didn't love myself. People treated me as I treated my self. I was so shy that I used to be proud of not wanting to meet new people and do new things generally. I even used to brag about it. I hated change that caused any kind of discomfort. As you have probably guessed, people that are like this usually do not live happy lives. They have low confidence and self esteem. They have this inferiority complex. They can't succeed in life because of this complex. They never learn to love themselves.
Yes, I was one of those people. Let's get to the brighter side now. If you become more social, you will take care of so many other issues. You will become more confident first. You become more confident because you will take more risks. As you become more confident, you realize that you're not such a poor person. You start loving yourself. Some people even take this to the extreme (which is not recommended).
All of this is great. With time, you start losing that awful inferiority complex. You cease worrying so much in life. Your self esteem increases. As a result, you don't think that negatively anymore and you start having a more positive outlook.
If you are very shy now, the idea of becoming very social may be frightening to you. Don't worry. You don't need to start being the life of the party immediately. Start slowly. Talk to at least one stranger a day about anything. Meet more people anywhere you can. Don't ever decline someone's invitation to an event where you could meet more people.
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