2011年2月13日星期日

My Solution For Approaching Women

By Alex Decoto


How to motivate yourself to approach women? Well, you can use negative or positive motivation. Negative definitely works better. It is just how we humans function. I will give you some examples of both.

What are habits? Habits are something we humans do as a result of biological hard wiring. We cannot control it as much as we think we can. Ask yourself, are your thoughts different from yesterday and three days ago? No, they are likely to be similar or completely the same. That is how powerful habits are. We are going to use habits to approach women. It takes more than 21 days to create a new habit. Just to be sure, we are going to round it up at 30 days in this case. Thirty days of approaching women.

The first solution involves positive reinforcement. You will be approaching women for thirty days and you will get a reward for it. If you fail, you will not get the reward. You decide how many women you are going to have to approach. And decide on the reward too. What would you like to get for that accomplishment? It can be a short trip somewhere or some cool gadget. To make this commitment stronger, you will have to tell this to a friend. They will keep you accountable and make sure that you stay truthful to yourself. Just think of the reward...

Here is an example of negative motivation, based on fear. In this case, you will give something to a friend. Give them money or a watch or anything that you consider valuable. Then, tell them that you will have to approach a certain number of women a day. If you fail to do that, the friend gets to keep whatever you gave them.

Have a successful journey!




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